Baby Blues

Is this your symptom?

  • Feeling depressed or anxious much of the time during the period up to one year after having a baby(postpartum)
  • Not taking good care of yourself or your baby
  • Do not feel a bond with the baby

Risk Factors for Postpartum Depression:

  • History of mental health problems
  • Mental health problems during pregnancy
  • Unplanned pregnancy
  • Recent major life events (death of a loved one, divorce, job loss)
  • Substance use or abuse (drugs, tobacco, alcohol)
  • Low birth weight, still birth or sudden infant death syndrome
  • Depression in the father of the child, poor relationship with partner or parental stress after the birth
  • Difficulty getting pregnant
  • Thyroid problems

Causes and Conditions that Impact Mental Health After Birth

  • Postpartum Psychosis (serious) is a rare but serious form of mental illness that puts the mother and baby at risk. The mother may have symptoms which range from low mood to losing touch with reality. She may think of harming herself or her baby. Seek help right away if these symptoms occur.
  • Depression. The cause is unknown. Some people are more likely to develop depression than others. It may be inherited. It may also be triggered by life events. Women are more likely to develop depression than men. The risks are higher after childbirth and at the time of the menopause.
  • Anxiety is a feeling of being tense or fearful. There may be physical symptoms such as dry mouth, nausea, sweating, shaking or palpitations (thumping heartbeat). In severe cases there may be chest pain and rapid breathing. Anxiety is normal in stressful situations. It is abnormal if it lasts after the stressful situation has gone away or if it happens without stress. Treatment involves self-help, trying to understand the reason for the anxiety and/or depression, talking therapies and meds, if needed.
  • Adjustment Reaction. This is like anxiety but it grows over a period of days or weeks in reaction to something that has happened (like a divorce). It may include depression. Treatment involves self-help, trying to understand the reason for the anxiety and/or depression, talking therapies and meds, if needed.
  • Phobia is a strong fear or dread of something that is out of proportion with the reality of the threat. Coming into contact with the situation/threat, or in some cases just thinking of the threat, can bring on symptoms of severe anxiety. Examples include agoraphobia (fear of going outside), arachnophobia (fear of spiders), fear of flying and many others. Behavioral therapies can have great success. Meds may also be used.
  • Social Anxiety Disorder (social phobia). This is a type of phobia in which you become very worried about what people think of you. It limits your ability to interact with other people in social situations.
  • Panic Attacks and Panic Disorder. A panic attack is the sudden onset of symptoms of severe anxiety and panic for no apparent reason. This can be overwhelming with all the symptoms of severe anxiety and in addition pins and needles and spasm of the hands and feet muscles due to over-breathing (hyperventilation). The person may look ill and appear white around their mouth. They rarely pass out and the attack often passes off after about 10 minutes. It can be difficult to tell whether the symptoms are due to panic or a heart condition. If in doubt Call 911. Panic disorder is diagnosed if you have repeated panic attacks at variable intervals.
  • Depression from Health Problems. A number of physical conditions can cause low mood and may be mistaken for depression. It is important to rule out physical conditions as treatment of the underlying condition may be needed. These include:
    • Underactive thyroid (a gland in the neck which produces thyroxine). Low levels can make you feel low, weepy and tired
    • Underactive pituitary gland (a gland in the brain which makes various hormones). Low levels affect sex drive and fertility as well as causing weight gain and low mood.
    • A head injury, even if it happened many years ago
    • Polymyalgia Rheumatica (an inflammatory condition) causing joint pain and stiffness as well as depression.
    • Early dementia may present as depression
  • Seasonal Affective Disorder. Some people get depression in the winter months only. The cause is thought to be due to lack of sunlight. Symptoms include trouble waking up. The symptoms become worse as the hours of daylight become shorter. The most severe symptoms tend to occur between November and January. Treatment includes getting as much natural sunlight as you can and/or light therapy from a lightbox with a bright light. The usual therapies for depression may also help.

When to Call for Baby Blues

When to Call for Baby Blues

Call 911 Now

  • You have tried to kill yourself or feel like you will try within the next few minutes
  • You have attempted to harm your baby or are neglecting your baby
  • You are thinking about harming or abandoning your baby
  • You have hurt yourself, taken an overdose of medicine or swallowed a poison
  • You think you have a life-threatening emergency

Go to ER Now

  • You fear you will hurt yourself or are thinking about hurting yourself

Call Doctor or Seek Care Now

  • You feel life is not worth living and feel guilty, worthless or helpless (or call 988, the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline)
  • Your wife or partner is behaving oddly, such as:
    • neglecting the baby
    • doing strange things
    • seeing or hearing things that are not there
  • You had a still born baby or a baby who died within the past 12 months
  • You are afraid to be left alone with your baby
  • You have a history of bipolar disorder and feel your mood is changing
  • You think you need to be seen, and the problem is urgent (or call 988)

Contact Doctor Within 24 Hours

  • You are not able to take care of yourself or your baby (not eating and drinking normally, drinking too much alcohol, not bathing/showering)
  • You have a constant feeling of anxiety, fear, worry and/or panic
  • You are crying all the time
  • You think you need to be seen, but the problem is not urgent

Contact Doctor During Office Hours

  • Trouble sleeping
  • You feel cranky, easily upset or restless
  • Trouble focusing or feel tired all the time
  • Mild low mood symptoms happen once in a while; does not affect normal activities
  • Baby Blues (mild depression), but no thoughts of harming yourself or your baby
  • You have other questions or concerns

Call 911 Now

  • You have tried to kill yourself or feel like you will try within the next few minutes
  • You have attempted to harm your baby or are neglecting your baby
  • You are thinking about harming or abandoning your baby
  • You have hurt yourself, taken an overdose of medicine or swallowed a poison
  • You think you have a life-threatening emergency

Go to ER Now

  • You fear you will hurt yourself or are thinking about hurting yourself

Call Doctor or Seek Care Now

  • You feel life is not worth living and feel guilty, worthless or helpless (or call 988, the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline)
  • Your wife or partner is behaving oddly, such as:
    • neglecting the baby
    • doing strange things
    • seeing or hearing things that are not there
  • You had a still born baby or a baby who died within the past 12 months
  • You are afraid to be left alone with your baby
  • You have a history of bipolar disorder and feel your mood is changing
  • You think you need to be seen, and the problem is urgent (or call 988)

Contact Doctor Within 24 Hours

  • You are not able to take care of yourself or your baby (not eating and drinking normally, drinking too much alcohol, not bathing/showering)
  • You have a constant feeling of anxiety, fear, worry and/or panic
  • You are crying all the time
  • You think you need to be seen, but the problem is not urgent

Contact Doctor During Office Hours

  • Trouble sleeping
  • You feel cranky, easily upset or restless
  • Trouble focusing or feel tired all the time
  • Mild low mood symptoms happen once in a while; does not affect normal activities
  • Baby Blues (mild depression), but no thoughts of harming yourself or your baby
  • You have other questions or concerns

Care Advice for Stomach Pain

What You Should Know About Stomach Pain:

  • Mild stomach pain can be caused by something simple. It could be from gas pains or eating too much.
  • Sometimes, stomach pain signals the start of a viral infection. This will lead to vomiting or loose stools.
  • Watching your child for 2 hours will help tell you the cause.
  • Here is some care advice that should help.

Lie Down:

  • Have your child lie down and rest until feeling better.

Clear Fluids:

  • Offer clear fluids only (such as water, flat soft drinks or half-strength Gatorade).
  • For mild pain, offer a regular diet.

Prepare for Vomiting:

  • Keep a vomiting pan handy.
  • Younger children often talk about stomach pain when they have nausea. Nausea is the sick stomach feeling that comes before they throw up.

Pass a Stool:

  • Have your child sit on the toilet and try to pass a stool.
  • This may help if the pain is from constipation or diarrhea.
  • Note: for constipation, moving a warm wet cotton ball on the anus may help.

Do Not Give Medicines:

  • Any drug (like ibuprofen) could upset the stomach and make the pain worse.
  • Do not give any pain medicines or laxatives for stomach cramps.
  • For fever higher than 102° F (39° C), acetaminophen (such as Tylenol) can be given.

What to Expect:

  • With harmless causes, the pain is most often better or gone in 2 hours.
  • With stomach flu, belly cramps may happen before each bout of vomiting or diarrhea. These cramps may come and go for a few days.
  • With serious causes (such as appendicitis), the pain worsens and becomes constant.

Call Your Doctor If:

  • Pain becomes severe
  • Constant pain lasts more than 2 hours
  • Mild pain that comes and goes lasts more than 24 hours
  • You think your child needs to be seen
  • Your child becomes worse

Extra Help - Worried Stomach:

  • Help your child talk about events that trigger the stomach pain. Talk to your child about how to cope with these the next time around.
  • Help your child worry less about things she can't control.
  • To treat the pain, help your child get very relaxed. Lying down in a quiet place and taking slow deep breaths may help. Make the belly go up and down with each breath. Then try to relax all the muscles in the body. Think about something pleasant. Listening to audios that teach how to relax might also help.
  • Make sure your child gets enough sleep.
  • Make sure that your child doesn't miss any school because of stomach pains. Stressed children tend to want to stay home when the going gets rough.
  • Caution: your child should see her doctor for an exam. Do this before concluding frequent stomach pains are from worrying too much.

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